Nisa(women)

I seek refuge from the cast off syaitan, the cursed. In the name of Allah, the compassionate, the merciful. Peace be upon you.

First and foremost, this post is about Nisa which means women and not Muhaimin girlfriend. Well, there's a chapter in the Quran, surah An-Nisa meaning chapter women. However, todays' post will be no reference to surah An-Nisa.

Before i get going, let me digress a bit. I am rather impressed by Jannah parents knowledge of the Quran. Well, you see, Jannah name itself, Nurul Jannah in arabic Nur means light and Jannah means heaven. Her brothers name, is one of the 99 names of Allah. Al-Mateen, is one of the 99 names/attributes of Allah which means The Firm. Which means to say Allah is one who is very steadfast. Of course, you can't name your child the same as the names of Allah, thus the word 'Al' is removed when naming someone thus making it Mateen which means steadfast/firm. Maybe her parents are well versed in the Quran. Alhamdullilah. This is a lesson in itself. I should then read and understand the Quran.

I'm very impressed by the Asmaul Husna. If people ask you attributes of God, tell them the Asmaul Husna. I remember a few and i'll share.

Allah - The God. The only one Almighty and the only one worthy of worship

Ar-Rahman - The All Merciful

Ar-Rahim - The All Compassionate

Al-Malik - The Absolute Ruler, King of Kings

Al-Ghani - The Rich One

Ar-Razzaq - The Sustainer

An- Nafi - The creator of good

Al-Qayyum - The Self Existing One

Al-Muhaymin - The preserver of safety

As-Salaam - The source of peace

Al-Mateen - The Firm

Al-Alim - The Knower of all

Ok thats 12 of out 99 names. I have a list but i guess i'll leave you to explore the rest. If you are looking for a site to check out the names, check this site out. www.asmaulhusna.com

Nisa. Women. Beautiful creatures created by God Almighty to accompany and care for men. You see i am attached and yeah grateful of that. However, there are a lot of things i don't like about women that my girlfriend have. Physically, mentally and emotionally. Her size, her temper, her pampered attitude, her smoking habit, her lack of attention for detail and many more. Nonetheless, i praise the Lord for giving her to me. Despite her shortcomings, she still contributed a hell a lot to this relationship and she's been supporting me. Alhamdullilah. Thank you my dear Jessie. I am not perfect and i guess i am worse than any being walking this earth thus lets keep on improving for the better and head to the straight path.

From this, i've learnt that getting a perfect women is never possible. Just as i always joke with my girlfriend about Pauline lah, Angeline lah, Hui Chen lah. Yeah they are beautiful and nice people but i am confident they have their shortcomings. The only perfect creatures in this world are the Prophets of God. Other than that everyone is normal. Not perfect. Even the comrades of the Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) are not perfect. If this men, the caliphs of Islam, those who have contributed so much to Islam are not perfect, what else we normal beings who are full of sins and shortcomings. I'm not saying that those people mentioned above are lousy and etc cause i never get to make them my partners but as i've said, they are great people but with shortcomings just like me.

Thus, being humans, we are created to have desires and are never perfect. Man or women. Women always seek the perfect men and men always seek the perfect women. Let me tell you. No man or women is perfect. If you are able to make them perfect, you'll turn them into a robot. Nonetheless, we should learn to improve. Before we can improve, we need to accommadate. Once we have accommadated to each other and get used to it, we improve. Slowly but surely. Insyallah. Improve for the better and not the worse. As i'm saying this, i am also reminding myself to always control my temper, accommadate, advice and improve together with Jessie.

Thats all for tonight.

Wa al Hamdu li Allah Rabbb al 'Alamin (All praise and gratitude is due to Allah, the Lord and Sustainer of the Worlds). Peace be upon you.